Tall Person, Small Person And Being Sir’s “Little One” (A Mindless Ramble)

Sir and I were messing about in the kitchen today and I called him “tall person”.

“If I’m’tall person’, that must make you ‘small person'”he chuckled exuberantly.

“No!” I squealed, but it stuck, and I’m now “Small person”.

None of it has really had any connotations of anything DDlg and it’s been more about stature, that was, until Sir called me “little one”.

I was somewhere between shocked, offended and confused. I went through a lot of emotions with not a lot of time between them all. There was the pull of calling him “Daddy”, combined with my long-standing resistance in the wake of the loss of my father.

Sir apologised and said it was wrong of him. He said he’d only done it to see how I’d react. It wasn’t ‘wrong’, but it did leave me feeling confused. he’d never called me “little one” before, it’d never been discussed.

Thinking more, I’m beginning to think that part of the reason DDlg doesn’t work for us us because Sir and I are remarkably close in age, at 32 and 30. On average, it seems, the age difference between a Daddy and his little is at least 3-5 years, and for us that isn’t the case.

Sir wants me not to feel confused, but right now, I feel more confused than ever. I’m not much younger than him, I’m not his little one, am I? Perhaps Badocks will have all the answers..

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  1. May I offer a suggestion? I’m going to, so I guess you can choose to read and think about it or not. πŸ˜› lol

    I know it’s hard, but try letting go of labeling your relationship and let it happen. For me, Daddy and little one are emotional states between my husband and me. I’ve called men more than 10 years YOUNGER than me Daddy… it’s the feeling with them which denotes my desire to call them Daddy, Papi, Sir or whatever is chosen between us. Choose wording between you and your husband which resonates with what feels good. Don’t worry about the labels or what others think. Go with what feels good to you. β™₯ Daddy doesn’t call me babygirl because it doesn’t resonate with Him… it hits that “ick” spot for Him. Calling me His little one is the ultimate way of calling me His love, His sweetheart…. that’s what it means to us and how it feels. Nothing is universal and works for everyone.

    Sorry this is hurting you and confusing you at this time in your life. 😦 This I’d wish for no one. I had deep shame and embarrassment when my little feelings and desires to express them in my relationship and sexually began surfacing. We all evolve. Be gentle with yourself. β™₯

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    1. I was actually thinking while I took Hugo out for the last time before bed, I think for me, “Tall Person” almost has that Daddy vibe to it. Maybe that, in a way, is what it is for me, Daddy does carry an “ick” factor to some degree because I was SO close to my biological father that I just can’t separate the two, no matter how hard I try, I can my husband all sorts of names, Sir is just the most respectful one. He’s also Wolfie, Butt, Butthead, or if they fail, Penis Breath, I have no idea why but it seems to work every time :p lol x

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      1. Penis breath just cracks me up!!! πŸ˜› I’m sure he just LOOOOVES that! LOL i can see how Tall Person has that vibe totally. πŸ™‚ It’s not about the name or Honorific at all… it’s the feeling behind the word. Even Sir can be that feeling if you both understand it as such. πŸ™‚

        I’m a funny one with Sir. Not something I’m comfy with… never have been. I call Daddy Sir from time to time teasing or flirting because He likes it. It feels weird and fake to me. My favorite for Him is Daddy~Master~Monster. lol

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      2. LPP is the other one, I’ll just sneak up on him and go “LPP!” and he’ll crack up with laughter. LPP stands for Little Peen Peen lol :p I don’t need to say the full thing, just “LPP” and he’s gone :D, “sticky dimples” was something else I developed too, if he’s looking sad I’ll just say “you can’t hide them, they’re sticky dimples!”, works every time πŸ™‚

        Sir was always “the” one for me, if a guy could get me to call him Sir without forcing it, he’d won the battle lol πŸ™‚ It’s amazing how many names we come up with, Whiffy Wolfie and Mr Wolfie are two others lol. Oh, and subby wubby one day hubby was my favourite chant before we got married :p

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      3. the joys of being a brat β™₯ mine isn’t so much the names i call Him, but the things i do. sticking my nose in His belly button and tickling Him… sniffing His armpits like a hound on a hunt. LMAO i have a zillion things like i do to drive Him crazy, but also know i’ll make Him giggle no matter what. β™₯

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  2. I bite lightly and suck hard so I leave a red mark that lasts an hour or two. Once I gave Sir one on the bridge of the nose (I was in a random mood lol) and he pulled away before I was ready and I left a massive red hickey on his nose for about a fortnight! Everyone thought somebody had punched him haha x

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