This artwork was lovingly handmade by yours truly. Although not a huge fan of the trilogy (other than for the fact that it got people talking about BDSM), this quote for me is particularly prominent. Why? Because an abused man, a man with a sad and dark history, allowed me, an emotionally abused woman, to … Continue reading Being In A BDSM Relationship Finally Allowed Me To Feel Safe And Loved, Here’s How
"I don't understand it, why would you want to be strict all the time? All the rules and protocols? Do this, don't do that.." Ladies and gentlemen, this was my Sir, late Monday afternoon. One of the most common misconceptions about being a Dominant is that you need to be strict, you need to be … Continue reading Fun Doms: A Mythical Beast Or A Misconception?
As a BDSM educator, something I get asked a lot is whether one needs to like giving or receiving pain in order to be into our lifestyle? Isn't that sort of the kinky VIP pass into doing what we do? Damnit, they're onto us. Just kidding. My friends, it is absolutely, crucially important that you … Continue reading Do You Need Pain To Participate In BDSM?
Many relationship experts will tell you that in a marriage, you should never, ever go to bed angry. No matter what, always, always kiss and make up before you go to sleep. Well, that wasn't us, at least, not this time. "I thought you came?!" "What? No! I mean, I enjoyed it. But I didn't.. … Continue reading We Went To Bed Angry, And It Absolutely Was The Right Thing To Do
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12 signs you might be scaring your Master or Mistress away, and how you can change.