Hello my lovelies, This post is the last in the beginners section of my workshop and will be addressing some of the most important aspects of BDSM play - subdrop, Domdrop, and aftercare. As a person who has been both Dominant and submissive, I have firsthand experience of both. Although remarkably similar in one regard … Continue reading Beginners: Subdrop, Domdrop & The Importance Of Aftercare (Last Beginners Post!)
Good morning lovelies, Do you ever have those mornings where your brain just starts churning over and you think "what I need right now, is coffee and a good write?" Yeah, me this morning. It absolutely chucked it down here in Bristol last night. Not an autumnal shower, but a full (Fall? Ha) drenching. The … Continue reading Ramble: Coffee-time Musings Of A Masochist
Hello lovelies, I'm back with another post in my BDSM workshop and today we are going to be talking about rules, the ones you need, the ones you don't, and why. The importance of trust In BDSM, trust is the key of what we do. If we don't trust our partners, somebody can end up … Continue reading Beginners: Some Rules You Need, Some Rules You Don’t
Hey lovelies, I know, I know, you came to me, wanting me to teach you all about BDSM and here I am teaching you that first of all, we need to talk about talking. Awful, right? Bad, Elena, very bad! But, friends, communcation is soo vitally important. In fact, your BDSM relationship cannot thrive without … Continue reading Beginners: The Importance Of Communication, Plus Some Ways To Implement It!
I saw her again, the little girl that resides within. The brat, the ten-year-old, the playful, naughty, mischevious me. "Wolfie, I am the boss now." I said. "Really?" he watches me, bemused. "Mmhmm, 'fraid so. New law, just came out today." my voice is almost child-like in tone. Gone is the adult. Somehow, somewhere, I … Continue reading Ramble: I Saw Her Again Last Night/Nadu For Meditation (Kind OF NSFW)
Good morning lovelies, I'm back with another ramble about... well.. not too much, actually! Last night, my good Sir and I ordered an Indian takeaway from a little known gem near us. The food always arrives piping hot, delicious and beautifully garnished. I was initially taken aback when a little Italian man came waddling down … Continue reading Ramble: The Cheesecake Game
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