Good morning lovelies, Do you ever have those mornings where your brain just starts churning over and you think "what I need right now, is coffee and a good write?" Yeah, me this morning. It absolutely chucked it down here in Bristol last night. Not an autumnal shower, but a full (Fall? Ha) drenching. The... Continue Reading →
On Kink & Disability: Why Would Someone In Pain Want To Be In Even MORE Pain?
Something I rarely talk about is my disabilities. Indeed, one of my disabilities puts me through large amounts of pain on a daily basis. Even as I write this, my wrist is arguing with me, demanding that I stop and give in. Of course, I'm tenacious, and if my body tells me that I can't... Continue Reading →
Do You Need Pain To Participate In BDSM?
As a BDSM educator, something I get asked a lot is whether one needs to like giving or receiving pain in order to be into our lifestyle? Isn't that sort of the kinky VIP pass into doing what we do? Damnit, they're onto us. Just kidding. My friends, it is absolutely, crucially important that you... Continue Reading →
