Hey lovelies, I write this piece with the approval of my good Sir and after a recent night of weakness for him. You see, this post is not about lambasting him for the way he is, but rather, the importance of accepting him the way he is. In pop culture, Alphas (male and female) are … Continue reading On Alphas & Mental Health
Hello lovelies, It's another curry night that should have been followed by a night of kinky fuckery. Alas, having passed out for 90 minutes from sheer exhaustion, it hardly ended up that way. Sheer exhaustion before the exhausting stuff had happened, that is. When I woke up this morning, I had a plan of action … Continue reading Fears & Failures
Hey lovelies, I know, I know, you came to me, wanting me to teach you all about BDSM and here I am teaching you that first of all, we need to talk about talking. Awful, right? Bad, Elena, very bad! But, friends, communcation is soo vitally important. In fact, your BDSM relationship cannot thrive without … Continue reading Beginners: The Importance Of Communication, Plus Some Ways To Implement It!
Good morning lovelies, I'm back with another ramble about... well.. not too much, actually! Last night, my good Sir and I ordered an Indian takeaway from a little known gem near us. The food always arrives piping hot, delicious and beautifully garnished. I was initially taken aback when a little Italian man came waddling down … Continue reading Ramble: The Cheesecake Game
Sometimes in life, it's not possible for our kinky sessions to go ahead. It can happen for a number of reasons, whether one party is sick, our Dominant has a huge workload or our submissive just isn't feeling like submitting. It's important to understand that BDSM play can, and often does, get called off for … Continue reading 8 Tips For Coping When Playtime Gets Cancelled
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