Good afternoon lovelies, I don't normally write on this blog on a Thursday and yet, as I've been following the Grace Millane case so intensively, I felt the need to come on here and write for you all today. I've also written previously about this tragic case, and the importance of knowledge, consent, communication and... Continue Reading →
Good morning lovelies, Today, I wanted to talk to you about something very personal to me: The difference between abuse and BDSM. Yesterday, I received a phonecall from my neighbour regarding his ongoing battle for legal custody of his daughter. My neighbour and I get on fairly well, but I aware of him and his... Continue Reading →
Hello lovelies, This will be my last, last post in my beginner's section of my workshop. I know I've sort of said as much before, but then it occurred to me a few days ago that I'd mentioned RACK in a post, but haven't actually written anything about the oh so important SSC, RACK and... Continue Reading →
Good morning lovelies, Before I go on vacation, I promised to write about our discovery of "Three B" Nights and how they can help you. Are you ready to get stuck in? Let's Go! What is a "Three B" Night? My husband and I coined "Three B" Nights after our recent argument which I wrote... Continue Reading →
This artwork was lovingly handmade by yours truly. Although not a huge fan of the trilogy (other than for the fact that it got people talking about BDSM), this quote for me is particularly prominent. Why? Because an abused man, a man with a sad and dark history, allowed me, an emotionally abused woman, to... Continue Reading →
Some tips for coping when BDSM play goes wrong, including communication and aftercare.
The importance of safe words in BDSM relationships,