The Importance Of Consent (More On The Grace Millane Case)

Good afternoon lovelies, I don't normally write on this blog on a Thursday and yet, as I've been following the Grace Millane case so intensively, I felt the need to come on here and write for you all today. I've also written previously about this tragic case, and the importance of knowledge, consent, communication and … Continue reading The Importance Of Consent (More On The Grace Millane Case)

This Isn’t Abuse, But That Is (24/7 D/s vs Domestic Abuse)

Good morning lovelies, Today, I wanted to talk to you about something very personal to me: The difference between abuse and BDSM. Yesterday, I received a phonecall from my neighbour regarding his ongoing battle for legal custody of his daughter. My neighbour and I get on fairly well, but I aware of him and his … Continue reading This Isn’t Abuse, But That Is (24/7 D/s vs Domestic Abuse)

Being In A BDSM Relationship Finally Allowed Me To Feel Safe And Loved, Here’s How

This artwork was lovingly handmade by yours truly. Although not a huge fan of the trilogy (other than for the fact that it got people talking about BDSM), this quote for me is particularly prominent. Why? Because an abused man, a man with a sad and dark history, allowed me, an emotionally abused woman, to … Continue reading Being In A BDSM Relationship Finally Allowed Me To Feel Safe And Loved, Here’s How